rvpiano,
To follow my discussion on vacuum tube gain, for 12AX7 and 5751 tubes see this list, https://www.tubesandmore.com/tech-corner/12ax7-comparison-current-made-tubes.
Otherwise, the recommendation to use Rothwell attenuators is supported by many reviews such as TNT Audio, but again these are sourced UK.
To follow my discussion on vacuum tube gain, for 12AX7 and 5751 tubes see this list, https://www.tubesandmore.com/tech-corner/12ax7-comparison-current-made-tubes.
Otherwise, the recommendation to use Rothwell attenuators is supported by many reviews such as TNT Audio, but again these are sourced UK.