No one is trying to convince you that you are not hearing what you are claiming to hear. They are telling you it has nothing to do with vinyl, that vinyl absolutely does not have superior signal recreation capability, that what you hear is purely the particular recording and personal preference. That digital is more capable of whatever nuance you may claim which should be self evident given you can record vinyl on digital and play it back and not be able to distinguish the two.
I am also saying your claim that recording engineers think analog/vinyl is more "real" on average is made up.
I am also saying your claim that recording engineers think analog/vinyl is more "real" on average is made up.