Also, you have to have very good source material in very good condition.^^^^this^^^^
I've spent the better part of 45 years collecting, cleaning, curating and upgrading my record collection. Much more time and money than my system itself.
I'm constantly on the lookout for better copies or earlier pressings of what I already have in my collection. Also, pressings from other countries such as the UK, Germany, Russia ,(classical especially), Japan, etc.
Most modern pressings pale in comparison to a good early pressing, but the search for quiet copies in NM condition can be frustrating.
Find the right pressing with decent equipment and there is no "sound", just the music.