All things being equal (hypothetical) which do you prefer, XLR or RCA?

Same cable same manufacturer (Kondo KSL), i like the balanced connection for a more relaxed with more body presentation as having the benefit of the extra gain. But i also like the slightly better mids and energy on top and the slightly better pace and attack with single ended connection. 
Dynamics i would call equal.
Both my pre and power amp are true balanced designs.

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XLR

Simply stated differential balanced means no signals are on the same boards, which 100% eliminates cross talk. Anything less, should NOT be considered Hi-End

XLR, provided that the components to which the connection is made are truly balanced.

XLR.