I highly doubt that the Pass XA25 is causing the lean sound with bright highs. I suspect it is something else. Maybe something in your preamp, or the type of 6SN7 tubes? Or are you using silver wiring - as this will definitely slant the sound towards lean/bright if you have too much silver.
As far as Parasound A23+ or A21 goes, I don't think it will solve your problem. It may make sound even leaner than the Pass Labs (the Pass XA25 is going to be biased much higher into Class A and providing a thicker sound). I have heard the XA25 and it's definitely not "lean" sounding.
The Paraound amps have an incredibly clean midrange, but the high frequencies can come across a bit dry (in my system it lacked engaging sound quality). You can fix with a fuse upgrade, but it can become even slower. I'm not sure if this is what you want since it still will not be as "thick/full" sounding as the XA25.
If you want an amplifier that is full sounding but with softer and laid back highs, I would recommend a McIntosh amplifier. But like I said, I think something else is going on in your system that is causing the lean/bright effect.