@ledoux1238:
1: You sure can. However, if the two amps don’t provide the same gain (fairly likely), you WILL need a means of adjusting the volume of the higher gain one. Some power amps include a volume control, but these days that’s rare. A simple outboard volume "pot" at the input of the power amp will work, but will of course necessitate an extra inter-connect.
By the way, if you use two identical amps, you can bi-amp either horizontally (one stereo amp for the panels, one for the woofers) or vertically (one stereo amp for each complete loudspeaker).
2: Exactly correct.
a: This subject has been discussed in detail many times before on Audiogon, so do a subject search; there are lots of products to choose from. I have the nice little x/o Nelson Pass offered in the First Watt B4, but it is no longer offered factory-assembled (kit only now), though it is more x/o than you need for this application (plus it retailed for $1500, perhaps more than you want to spend). There are LOTS of self-contained volume pots (even from ebay vendors), one from HSU (the maker of subs) for under $100. Cheap volume pots are notorious for channel imbalance, so get a good one! When he was alive, Roger Modjeski was offering a "Volume Pot In A Box" pre-amp (he was a proponent of passive pre-amping). Contact Music Reference to see if there are any left in stock.
However, the best way to do the filtering (possible because that needed is the simplest of all types) is a passive, 1st-order (6dB/octave). All that requires is one cap and one resistor per channel, which can easily be soldered onto the input jacks on the power amps, inside the amps. Why is that ’best"? No extra inter-connect required, no extra breaks in the signal path. Less is more! (that goes for you too, musicians ;-)
If you have a good tech in your area, having him do the work won’t cost you much. I had Tom Carione at Brooks Berdan Ltd. in SoCal install the exact filter you need in my Bedini 25/25. I had him replace the stock binding posts with Cardas at the same time.
b: already answered.
c: ditto.
I hope this doesn’t sound too daunting. Used as delivered from the factory, the LFT-8b already sounds great (have you read the review by Robert Greene in TAS, or the reviews in UK mags?) . I would listen to the speaker stock, see if you like it enough to take it to another level. Be sure to get the dedicated stand Sound Anchor makes for the LFT-8b. If you’re familiar with that stands they make for the Vandersteen speakers, you’ll know what they look like. Eminent Technology stocks and sells them.