By this “logic” it could be said that there has been no significant improvement in what audio gear is capable of since Victrola days.
**** In order to make gear which has details never before heard the gear must exaggerate some sounds to the detriment of others. ****
Could not disagree more. To reveal new details does not have to mean exaggerating those details; as has been pointed out lowering the noise floor is one way to do it and it certainly doesn’t have to be to the detriment of other details.
Perhaps the reason that you feel the way you do is your preference for a “laid back sound”. The sound of music and the way that it is recorded is not always laid back; and often far from it. I agree with you that there are no neutral components and the closer they get to true neutrality the more they will reveal both the laid back sounds and the abrasive in your face sounds. A component or system that makes everything sound laid back is the antithesis of neutral.