Whilst picking up the really helpful comments from all who responded, I have also been continuing my research on the net. I think I have made some progress and am ready to do my first set up and listening trials if I can borrow the kit.
@jtcf Thanks for your post earlier. I am not sure you're right the KEF KC62 won't deliver the goods in my room. There's a lot of new tech in there. I've read four pretty positive reviews. The fullest is at whathifi.com/reviews/kef-kc62 in Australian Hi-Fi, an offshoot of the UK mag What Hi-Fi. This describes the technical innovations in some detail, which include two co-axial drivers and a cast aluminium box said to be very rigid - easier to make it rigid at this 10 inch scale.
As to output it is true the KC62 is limited to 115dB and won't often be able to deliver all that. But I will be listening to music only at reasonable levels, not cinema, so I certainly don't need gut-sickening boom. There is 1000w of amplification to power its two small drivers; that should be plenty of volume for what I need.
One thing that alarmed me at first with the KC62 is that KEF claim it goes down to 11Hz. This didn't seem possible for this very small size. Nor do KEF specify how far down the output is there. But the Australian reviewer did a lot of testing and publishes five graphs. In the main one the frequency response is plotted for each of its 10 roll-off rates. For rates between 40-60Hz - I am likely to start with 60 or 70 - the output at 15Hz is down only 8-9dB. At 20Hz it is only 2.5dB down. Even compared to much larger subs this is superb.
The KC62 has two co-axially driven drivers, mounted in opposition. Two drivers firing 180º from each other not only damp vibration and rock and roll. It also seems to me they will be capable of better room mode cancellation than a single driver. I am going to start by trying two KC62s. As well as experimenting with location, turning the orientation of each in each position should offer a lot more variability to experiment with. If two work well over extending listening, then I may try adding one or two more. Whilst not dirt cheap (R&D has to be paid for) these are priced at only about 40% of the Martin Logan Balanced Force, where I wouldn't really want to pay for more than two.
At just 10 inches cubed, probably in white not black, even four are not going to get in the way or degrade room aesthetics too much.
I will be reporting back and sharing.