What you say is true, however if you were use a low cutoff filter at 40Hz. With most music I doubt if you could hear the difference. A subsonic filter cuts in about 40 Hz and I could never tell the difference apart from stopping the excess movement of the bass speaker.
A filter has a cutoff frequency that is defined as the -3dB point. You will get phase shift above that frequency; up to 10X the frequency if a 6dB/octave filter is used, less if a 12dB filter is used but you get more of a 'bump' just above the cutoff. The ear perceives the former as a loss of impact.
I played bass in the orchestra for decades and now play keyboards in a band; I like electronia and there are plenty of ambient recordings that have significant material below 40Hz (roughly low E on a bass). Having a number of speakers laying around, I've two sets where the cutoff is about that frequency and I most definitely miss the bottom end using them without subs.
Yuo tell us acoustics is simple. Put two small swarm subs in the room and your ears won’t hear any peaks or dips. Well, to me it isn’t.
I didn't say acoustics is simple. What I did say is that setting up a set of Swarms is quite easy. I experienced immediate improvement. Also, I only use 2 Swarm subs because my main speakers are flat to 20Hz. I got away with 2 subs but most people would need 4. I can cycle the subwoofer amp on and off and the difference is obvious.
@erik_squires The data sure seems to suggest a standing wave. There is a dip of about 8dB and then a peak. If this is at the listening chair as described it should be outside the room boundary effect. A bit depends on the room of course. But since we have that dip, no amount of power will correct it since its cause by cancellation. That's why you break up the standing wave with a distributed bass array. Then if the room still has issues they won't be hard to correct.
why I keep saying measurement is important, and we may be adding subs for the wrong reasons. Let the OP clean up his bass first, and then decide, based on his own needs and values if a sub is worth the trouble.