Sounding like a fan boy myself, @atmasphere @erik_squires both have decades of experience and knowledge.Myself and many others here have benefited from it and been inspired to do more research then do our own experiments and implementations.As far as this discussion Erik and Ralph just start from different points IMO.
The Amroc chart Erik mentioned I ran across a few years ago - calculates your room modes in seconds,a good place to start.The site is very informative and easy to understand for us tech challenged folks(me).
I've got room treatments and three subs,only one sub has DSP included. What a huge positive difference that equalizer makes....if the other two ever fail I know what I'll be replacing them with. My speakers do go down to 20hz but their position isn't ideal for the best bass response even though the mids up are the best they can be in my room. Just my two cents.