If we reach a point where sound quality can be accurately predicted by measurement I’d have zero resistance or issue with it. My point is acknowledging we are not remotely close to doing that now.
I would tend to believe amplifier designers who are building the upper shelf equipment, over the general public.
Measurements tell me next to nothing in regard to how these audio components will sound, so I must hear them. I totally understand if others judge and select differently with buying audio components. Do what suits you the best.
However, the upper shelf designers seem to make stuff that does not require cabels to serve as tone controls. So they seem to know how it will sound by looking at the graphs. Just because 99% cannot, does not mean that it is impossible.
I have a couple of tube amps, and tube preamps… and I know that they colour things.