thank you @danager and @mahgister for the kind words.
trying to be self aware, i view myself as an audiophile who is all in with maximum effort to enjoy every part of the hobby, serious room and system building, and the music. secondarily i have committed lots of resources to support my efforts. i’d like to think i’m known for my commitment, not my budget, but i know that’s not how the forums work. i accept that.
onto the topic, "how audiophiles are different"....especially how they listen. here are my thoughts.
my views are that there are multiple natural perspectives for any listener. natural selection/evolution has resulted in our ability to listen selectively. for an audiophile it’s a skill that can be learned and improved. we can hear around things. vinyl listeners are able to ignore noise not associated with the music, but are sensitive to noise changing the music. we teach ourselves this. or....we cannot teach ourselves this and reject vinyl as noisy. it’s the way it is.
but how does this effect system building and listening to gear? again; it can be learned. with practice we can find references to use to hear important differences. and maybe we have progressed sufficiently in our learning to have an aural memory in our head of particular music we hold up as a template.
another level is to recognize how our body and all it’s senses are affected by the music. typically this requires longer listening sessions, where our feelings about the gear and music can evolve and settle. does the quick first impression hold up over longer time. it’s also why so few serious audiophiles use blind testing. that interferes with our natural normal reaction to the music. it adds a disturbance clouding reality of our feelings. adds stress.
i can’t really say how other audiophiles process what they hear. but the above is how i do it. it how i make system and music decisions. and i love my process. it keeps me fully engaged.