You’re definitely on the right track, and probably more knowledgeable than most. When planning for audio AC circuits, it’s best when you can calculate your amperage capacity needs (in advance if possible). When it comes to audio needs, metering definitely helps in this area, with a knowledge of electricity as well. Establishing four dedicated 20 amp circuits for one’s audio system may be considered overkill for some, but may be a requirement for others. Yes, when lights are dimming when playing your system, there is some kind of starvation taking place, and in need of an inspection, improvement and probably upgrading.
I don’t claim to know everything, but I’m at least very familiar with grounding (for lightning especially), bonding, and wiring current capacity. I would agree with you on voltage drop for long distances of wiring. Those voltage-drop tables can easily be found on the internet, but probably not necessary in the home environment. Many audio-enthusiasts tend to favor delivering AC to their amplifiers via 10 AWG (as I too do the same, and have implemented it as well), but many electricians may not want to provide that for you, as I believe it doesn’t typically pass code (10 AWG on a 15 or 20 amp circuit breaker). I think someday someone needs to update the code for this application, as they have in the past with/for balanced AC power. It’s very easy to go to extremes when providing AC power for audio systems, but sometimes it’s simply not always necessary.
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