@analoguefan To answer your specific question, how do you find time, my wife & I decided long ago that time together was important and we needed to find an activity to suit. My love of music has been lifelong, with her not so much. But we decided every evening we would set aside time to listen to music together. In our case it's 7:00 - 9:00 most every evening. While I can sit for two hours and just let the music wash over me, my wife enjoys listening and playing Word on her tablet. Over time, my wife's appreciation for all types of music has grown in leaps and bounds. It's a great way to connect and spend quality time doing something we both enjoy. I suspect the answer is it's not finding more time, but rather deciding music time is a higher priority then some other activity. IMHO.