Why do almost all women today hate home audio?

preposterous, gross generalization.  
“Why are 99% of audiophiles sexist and sexually unappealing to women?”

There. I can do it too.

My experience with women is similar to kids, they like music but are ok with listening on Alexa or even a phone speaker.  I can't understand it.

So if you don't appreciate the quality of the sound, any sound will do, then the system gets judged for aesthetic value and rejected in favor of things you'll see in Architectural Digest.

Jerry

It’s not just today, they have always hated it. They hated it in 1960 and they hate it in 2060. If it does it make their life easier then they don’t know what to do with it.

Women probably wonder why men don't like diamond they way they do.

I don't know anybody who 'hates' home audio; most folks of any demographic, including many musicians, really don't care very much about home audio. This is a very tiny niche market.