Pindac -
The bottom line is Does It Work for YOU? Ingenuity and experience are often able to trump pure marketing hype and money when carefully accommodating the realities of the space you have to work with.
When I picked up my Nakamichi Dragon a few years back, the seller was listening to it using equipment that cost much more than I would ever dream of investing, and the sound was very good - even though it was in the middle of an active clothing warehouse. He had a small table, a couple of desk chairs, some wine, and very nice jazz to listen to. His point was that he can only demonstrate that the unit works well, but how it sounds to ME in My Home, is up to me - the system components and environment I choose to set up will make more difference than any one part, although each will affect the whole.
I, and I believe you, will never stop being curious if this or that little (or big) tweak will make the difference we are looking for, but in truth, all we have is the enjoyment of the journey. The road to Nirvana has no end except our own and it appears you have found a few things you can enjoy and be satisfied with (at least for now) along the way. I look forward to discussing many aspects of aural enjoyment in the future with many "Gon" devotees, each with different ears, experiences and resultant recommendations. My aging ears have not been golden in decades, but like you, I know what makes my listening area an enjoyable space.