I have not demoed the Whest or the MW but I have done a home demo of the Gold Note PH-10. I was looking for pretty much the same sound signature you’re seeking.
The GN is a fantastic phono stage, very well built, excellent UI and great detail without brightness. In the end, it wasn’t quite the sound signature I was looking for and I’m guessing that would apply to you as well. I would have no hesitation recommending the GN to someone who was seeking that kind of sound signature.
I ended up with a used Aesthetix Rhea Signature and it does have what you’re looking for. I would highly recommend checking one out. Excellent service as well by their folks in California.