@stuartk +1
If you focus on how it sounds, you miss on why it sounds.
These two mental attitudes - analytical versus immersive listening - tend to be mutually exclusive. We like to believe we have freedom of thought, so you might think there’s a choice. But once the brain gets entangled in the audiophile frame of mind this come at a price. Not just the absurd cost of getting into the high resolution audio rabbit hole, but you run the risk of loosing your connection with the music itself.
There are audiophiles who are mostly (only?) interested in the sound itself and there are music lovers who don’t seem to care at all how it sounds. It’s only those unfortunate folks who care about both who find themselves in this predicament. Wisdom comes with age as some would have it, but in this case physical deterioration comes to our aid as well. There comes a moment when you can no longer deny that the kind of spacial cues or minuscule details that previously enthralled you are no longer audible..... unless you’re lucky, or maybe not. When the focus on those details only brings a sense of loss and no longer satisfies, the brain will eventually move away from this mind set. It’s as if those carefully developped ’audiophile’ connections start to shrivel away and if you make an effort the ’musical’ connections already there will start building up again.
This observation is from personal experience at age 63. I’ve been in denial for quite a while, but a significant hearing loss above say 12kHz and a mild form of tinnitus have forced me to shift my attention away from how things sound. I now recognize this as a blessing, because it no longer stands in the way of truly hearing the music. It almost feels nostalgic, like coming full circle. Nonetheless it’s still very easy to distinguish between recordings and recognize the ones that sound best. Not for all those details, stage depth or other audiophile hang ups, but for its inherent rightness. For this mode of listening you really don’t need an expensive, high resolution audio system. These days I can enjoy music just as much with my vintage system from the 70’s and with the tone controls (remember those) I can easily correct bad recordings of which there are so many. And waddayouknow: the ones that always sounded best in the high resolution system also sound best on the ’old’ rig without needing the tone controls.
So from a sonic perspective the truth of the matter is that the quality of the recording was, is and always will be the most important factor. What, you already knew that?