Yeah, those drapes are over-dampening your room. I was in an over-damped room at a dealer once and it was not an enjoyable listen so I know exactly what you’re talking about. I’d try replacing the drapes with thin sheets if they’re much thicker than sheets, or maybe you could take some of the drapes down behind the system and along the sides at first reflection points just for listening. If you’re planning on putting up walls in the future I’d highly recommend reading this by Earl Geddes on how to build a great-sounding room. It’s very approachable and I learned a ton about room acoustics and building materials/techniques — very interesting stuff. Anyway, here’s the link…
http://www.gedlee.com/downloads/HT/Home_theater.pdf
Hope this helps, and best of luck breathing life back into your room.