Kindness costs me nothing.
Hearing my Grandma's voice say, "If you have nothing nice to say, don't say anything" and heeding it costs me nothing.
I value this site, I value it's members and the varied advice and opinions. I've met some really great folks here and we stay in touch.
Per another group I am a member of, I keep my side of the street clean. And other people's opinions of me are none of my business.
I truly enjoy and love you all.