Look fine to me & in proportion with the room. Maybe put some good quality fake plants on them which you can remove when listening?
Show your wife the the next system pic of the 2024 system by dj & ask her it that would be acceptable?
I have the Volti Rivals in beautiful Red Gum w/ black grilles which I love & my wife does in comparison to Avantgarde Duos I owned several years ago which my brother called “ Dr Seuss Speakers”! Hilarious.
I think the Rivals, however are taller & pretty large overall. As previously mentioned, the Razz might work & give you a good percentage of the Volti sound for very reasonable money.