@navyachts I have tried numerous ways to tweak the bass on the MLs. From the Perfect Bass Kit, to the dials on the back. I am not savvy enough (yet) to make adjusts with the ARC Genesis software, but I did send the files into a tech at Paradigm/Anthem AV support for them to tweak and I just can't seem to get it right. Yes, I have had subwoofers before and had trouble integrating them, but I thought I'd give it on last ditch attempt as I feel something is missing here.
I've yet to hear any method of signal processing or amount of amplifier watts that can ameliorate a subwoofers poor performance when located out of the rooms standing wave bass modes.
Locate and position the subwoofer within the modes only then should processor and or EQ adjustments be made. The speaker matching comes as a byproduct of the subwoofers available adjustment parameters. (Does not apply to -6dB sub-bass speakers.)
https://www.audioholics.com/home-theater-connection/crawling-for-bass-subwoofer-placement
From your list +1 the AK Swarm. When I setup a distributed bass array (Swarm) in my home using dissimilar subwoofers the need for bass mode positioning was not needed. Simply put, the boundary located array takes the room out of the equation providing an almost uniquely unparalleled low frequency timing presentation.