You're asking a group of hobbyists of varying stripes in what can be construed as a rigidly dogmatic hobby by some of it's members, who, alienated from family and friends, take to a public forum to expound how they have the answers to the rest who simply enjoy it for the love of the music they can get from their systems, why they all can't just get along?
Have I got that right?
All the best,
Nonoise