Disagreements and Conflicts between Audiophiles have we lost our brotherhood and maturity?


I looked back over my posts and even my audio business dealings over the last 5 years and it seems like we have lost our ability to peacefully disagree or resolve disputes like grown men. Some of my best friends in this life are audiophiles and I enjoy the gear, the music and the brotherhood. I don’t enjoy the senseless spats. The inability to resolve conflicts and the people trying to destroy peoples business and reputations. Thoughts? 

calvinj

Whart hit the nail on the head. The internet has brought a whole new way for people to communicate, audiophiles and others. In the old days, it was done face to face so treating others with respect was usually the way to go. Now it's done hidden in a cloud without any civility restrictions whatsoever.  And the weak minded usually takes advantage of the situation. What an easy way for them  to get even with all the people they can't deal with in real life. It's liberating. 

I chose to ignore them. Still a lot of respectful posters on here. It's really easy to differentiate them from the fakes. It sure is an adaptation challenge for us in our seventies, but I'm always up for a challenge. Heck I'm an audiophile! :)

Lots of bad influencers in high places these days. The results are predictable which makes it even sadder. 

@whart I agree with you. Things have changed. I started with a 2500 system. My system currently is 90k retail. Which I thought I would never do. But I don’t think it makes me any better than anyone else. It’s a sound signature i chased for years and now I caught it. I’m pretty much set for a long time. Some people say that but I’m set. Not putting anymore in. I’m just going to enjoy. I also stay away from guys that are arrogant and take offense to the smallest things. I don’t want to argue with folks like that anymore. I’m sick of the know it alls. I may not agree with you but it doesn’t mean I hate you.

@sls883 I understand that.  I sold someone something once and because I didn’t let them try the speaker cables fast enough they immediately trashed me and product that they really loved just 2 months earlier.  It became personal. Not musical but personal. I didn’t get into this for that. I just wanted people to enjoy the tunes and the brotherhood. But unfortunately, that’s the way it is. This hobby should be happy and stress free. People shouldn’t be know it alls and we should treat each other with respect. Not silly disdain