Critical listening is necessary if one is to progress, also necessary to have a knowledge base/listening encyclopedia in order to obtain a reference or references as a goal. I spent far larger percentage of listening time in critical listening mode to my systems and others in early years, decades. Over time as I've come closer to my goals, far less time spent in this mode, mostly I admire the sound if I do go into this mode.
Critical listening mode shouldn't always be seen in a negative light, it is a necessary tool in the audiophile tool bag.