As an audio enthusiast with an engineering background, have you ever experimented with DIY cabling??
I have tried 12 AWG 16 AWG - can't say as I can hear a difference but I tend to try to choose components in a rather specific way;
=> speakers that are an easy load (not 4 Ohm and no nasty dips )
= amps whose output is not sensitve to load variations.
...perhaps this explains my experience perhaps I just have tin ears or I blindly accept all to readily what was taught to me in school. Whatever it is, my experience does not match what others find. So youu have to make up your own mind.