balanced connection player

Thule has a couple of CD players that are balanced.
Good value. You can pick one up for around $600 used here when available.

since most of these brands are not available in my area(even san francisco), i almost have to rely on reviews alone...search goes on

A Wadia 830 can sometimes be found in your price range, but keep a sharp eye out because they usually sell about 4 seconds after they are listed.
Also, if you are looking for true balanced design, be sure to read the fine print in the owners manual or research the product on the internet. AES/EBU XLR terminals does not necessarily imply a balanced circuit. Some put them there for convenience only, and they are unbalanced.

(Sorry if you knew all that already)

Cheers

You could get a pro player or recorder (HHB, Tascam,Otari etc.) and upgrade it later with a better clock and converters like Apogee BigBen (clock)and Mini DAC which works on any sample-rate up to 192kHz.
(www.apogeedigital.com)
It'll go over your budget but you don't have to buy it all at once and the DAC will be future-proof for quite some time.

If you can find a used Classe CDP-10, I believe you would be a happy camper.