first of all i would focus on 2 channel or focus on surround. the quality of rears in all but super demanding ht systems are not that important (they only pickup ambient sounds from the movie). the sound of foot steps or bullets whizzing by are wasted on a good musical speaker. imo. i like your choices. try looking at spendor; it is a nice sounding speaker and our musical tastes are very similar.
good luck
good luck