I appreciate you guys feedback. To address one message, I am not a high maintenance customer or at the very least don't want to be, but when I buy something I want it to work as advertised and if it doesn't then I don't want any hassle getting an adjustment to either make it work as advertised or return it for a refund or upgrade.
All of that said, I have read about way too many nightmare situations where people ordered a TV and the first one delivered was broken, and then the second one was too and then the third one was too over the course of 3-4 months because the turn around time on picking up the defective unit and the delivery of the next one takes weeks to accomplish, not days. These are not isolated issues at all but repeated with virtually every retail outlet.
Costco, Crutchfield are the two that seem to have the fewest complaints in terms of delivery and setup. Your comments seem to confirm the Costco source as reasonable.
Your admonition to go with Oled over QLed seems reasonable though for my living space I have questions about whether Oled will have a bright enough image for the space it must go into. I am putting TVs in 3 different spaces initially, each with different requirements. Viewing angle is a consideration, especially at larger screen sizes. I was in Sam's club the other day looking at their offerings, and was looking at 85" models for our living room and noticed that if was sitting a bit offset from the center of the screen as I normally would be, the part of the screen furthest away from me was washed out compared to the direct on view on some models. I had read about some screens having these kinds of issues but didnt realize how pronounced a problem that could be. It seems Oleds solve that problem and have great wide angle viewing. Some qled sets are pretty good in this regard but certainly not all.
In some ways I question the need for resolution above 4k and wouldnt even consider buying an 8k set. I would never ever sit close enough even to a 4k set to be able to see individual pixels, and in fact when I had just a full HD 65" I couldn't see individual pixels on that screen at our viewing distance of 10' or so. Certainly wont be sitting any closer than that to any set I buy, so 4k is something of overkill. But to get a straight HD set that is only available now in very small screen sizes.