Ozzy,
I find forum threads to be a good starting point. You get replies from people who have owned or heard products that someone is not aware of. I don't expect anyone to go blindly follow multitudes of suggestions (how could they?). But one can begin to assemble information and gather data and then begin a search with some sense of direction.
If the OP does not have much exposure to SET amplifiers you have to ask questions and start somewhere. This would be followed by going out and trying to hear as much as is reasonably possible. There's so much available you will never be able to hear everything. You just do the best you can manage.
Charles