I do care people I interact with do so in a respectful and sincere manner, and this has definitely not been consistently the case around this issue and as a result I have grown a profound distaste for those who promote it.
What's that? Cake and eat it too?
I use a "swarm". I guess that's what it is, I have 4 subwoofers. I encourage people to give it a try. Is that "promoting" it? I guess it is. Why would you have "profound distaste" for me doing that?
I don't have bass traps (I do have some acoustic panels however). I also don't tell people that my way is the "only" or "best" way nor would I or have I told someone that using bass traps can't be effective.
My friend has the best system for bass I've heard, hands down. Two subs. Bass traps. Diffusers. No swarm. It's awesome! To me. Someone else might think it's too much bass. Or not integrated enough. Or whatever. He loves it. I think it sounds amazing. Someone else might have a different impression.
One of the great things about this hobby is that for many aspects of it there are a multitude of ways to achieve the outcome that is "best" for the individual hobbyist.
"Best" being subjective because everyone has different tastes, spaces, and budgets to name a few common variables.