this unit is for sequentially timed turn on/off of amps/components, with 30 second intervals.
adcom ace-515
https://www.usahifi.com/sites/default/files/product/494/manuals/Adcom%20ACE-515%20AC%20Enchancer%20Manual.pdf
it may solve your problem, avoid need to turn volume down.
I have one I am not using, I could put it up for sale here if you want, for what I paid, $60. or you can find them on eBay, ... they seem to be asking more these days
if it doesn't solve your problem, you can send it back, full refund, you pay return shipping.
adcom ace-515
https://www.usahifi.com/sites/default/files/product/494/manuals/Adcom%20ACE-515%20AC%20Enchancer%20Manual.pdf
it may solve your problem, avoid need to turn volume down.
I have one I am not using, I could put it up for sale here if you want, for what I paid, $60. or you can find them on eBay, ... they seem to be asking more these days
if it doesn't solve your problem, you can send it back, full refund, you pay return shipping.