I suppose for every generalization I can make there are exceptions. Example being repetition not good, plenty of songs I like repeat lyrics, time signatures, melody. Poor voices, is Neil really bad singer if he moves you with his voice? Genres and era of music, I'm all over the place with this.
For serious listening sessions on home stereo I no longer have to experience music I hate, streaming allows only listening to tracks that please.
Having said that, I still occasionally have to suffer listening to music I don't particularly enjoy. Just last night I had to listen to five or six hours constant rotation of mid 70's through early 90's commercial/arena/headbanger/metal rock, this blasting through garage stereo system at extremely high volume level. What bothered me most about this wasn't any particular qualities or lack of qualities from any individual song, rather it was from the feeling or mood this music evoked in me.
The moods or feeling music evokes in us may be perhaps most telling in why we hate any particular song or genre of music, says far more about us than the songwriter, performance.