Am I Getting Soft Here?

@sns

That happened to me as well.
 

After my last upgrade I didn’t touch anything for nearly a year I was so entranced with my system… even though I knew little was optimized. Then finally getting curious I did one little thing and the result was so important, it motivated me to do another… and another. After each I just drop back into the music as my system is even more seductive and just enjoy the music for another month.

When I was much younger I was constantly switched to the “analytical mode”… and spent way to much time there… work kept me away from my system so the small amount of time with it was spent in the analytical mode. I don’t do that anymore… not even after tweaks… if I don’t enjoy the music more, I undo the tweak.

This sentence from MC stood out:

“Some weeks later we have them over. Listening room door, eyes bug out.”

It can be argued that upgrading equipment isn’t always for pure SQ improvement. His eyes bugged out not his ears. There’s a reason equipment is designed to look great. Hand rubbed wood, polished stainless, glasswork, etc.  Many can simply ignore the visual aspect, but many cannot. Add to it…it’s fun to get a new toy and spend days and weeks tweaking. 
 

The upgrade bug bites for many reasons. 

@ghdprentice I've never been here prior, this over period of thirty years of serious system building. I'm like you in that I've had various lengths of time where I thought system just right, those didn't last more than a few months and never did the word revelatory come to me. We'll see if this is indeed the end of upgrades, the long run will tell.

However it turns out, it is small incremental improvements over the long run that  got me here. Based on my observations, it appears vast majority build satisfying systems in like manner.

I  ran into individual  some years ago that had sudden urge to spend well over $100K on system. Based on equipment purchased it appeared he based those purchases on Stereophile equipment ratings. Individual wanted me to come over and give my endorsement for his system, knowing I was long time audiophile. I ended up not going, wasn't really interested in hearing high value system put together with no thought or knowledge of putting together sympathetic equipment in a cohesive manner. I believe its the small incremental improvements one makes that leads to best sound quality, and one needn't spend multiples of $100k to get there.

This is an odd hobby because price points are all over the place. When I go to the supermarket, I don’t see a half gallon of ice cream for $12.00 and then another one for $86.00. But look at tone arms for example. I have a lot of money in my stereo but the money isn’t evenly distributed. Some things that have made the most satisfying improvements were tweaks ranging from $800.00 to $175.00. A while back I helped a friend put together a Rega system with Monitor Audio speakers and it sounds great and he didn’t have to break the bank. The audio business just isn’t black and white. So I wouldn’t get caught up in what ‘could be’ unless you hope to carry out a vision. I believe that you’ll eventually want to upgrade or tweak something but don’t rob yourself of the present.

what..??

dude, really? not that good?

 in best umbshitday voice " cmon, man"

 that's a great system, unless that's what you wanted to hear to reinforce your audio decisions??

that's a great system, we go with what we can afford, and no matter the cost, "its all ours" 

people who like bright speakers, would not like my stereo, do we give a sack, what others think..??  nope not me.