@thyname ,
Man, that sucks.
But to the common person, "it" (that is how they refer to audio systems) should make "loud music". That's all they care for. Such folks need to be educated. My colleagues told me that they had heard "about high end" audio, but never imagined what it could do.
Unless folks like us put some effort into educating the "not-in-the-know" folks, they will never know to differentiate sound/noise from music.