Hey @tony1954
I guess my question would be "Why bother?"
If she doesn't do it for you, why not just move on to someone else?
I think you misunderstand my intentions. If I only listen to things I already know I like I won't grow or connect to other music. Educating myself on how others appreciate art is important, and sometimes I find out new ways to listen to music and to listen for in music.
It's like looking at Picasso. At first it was meaningless, but then I learned about the history of art during the time of his first impressionism and now it means more to me. I may not necessarily like it all, but I'm able to appreciate it and connect to it and other artists of the period.