I must admit that I find such inquiry very confusing because, in terms of language, it is very difficult to speak in both dualistic and non-dualistic terms at once.
About the difficulty to spoke in non dual and dual term at the same time we need to think about language NOT ONLY as a vehicle for thought content but as the tought content itself ...Language is an autonomous spirit of his own with a body , the prosaic mode and a soul, the poetical mode level...
The Hebrew noun ruacḥ ( רוח) can refer to "breath", "wind", or some invisible moving force ("spirit").
Here We must think about what appear to us "modern mind" as two separate functions of language , because we observe language at a moment in time and not over all his history...
The prosaic meaning "wind" and the so called poetic meaning "spirit" we SEPARATE them after Cartesian dualism...
But cartesian bifurcation as called it Whitehead , is a dead end road... A tree with no fruits ... A moment in the history of consciousness..
now we come to a new moment in time when speaking will became more conscious... The two separated level must be consciously reunited and distinguished , yes, but not separated...And we must not call one primitive and uninformed and subjective and untruthfull , and we must not call the other as objective and informed and trustworthy OVER the other...We must choose the prosaic mode in an engineering speech and the poetical mode sometimes in a more deep matter... Some truths cannot be said out of the poetical mode of language and deep questions cannot even be asked in the prosaic mode alone...
Speaking is a sacred act... Not divisible in two estranged parts... Language already speak with itself , us humans are way less more wise than our own speaking power... Speech come from the source... Silence too....
Then to speak truth we must navigate by two modes of speaking between duality and non duality perspective because we live in these two dimensions at once and we must use language in all his potentialities without negating any of them ... ...
how can we choose "freely" between acts impelled by awareness of Consciousness and acts impelled by the ego?
The act inspired by the higher consciousness are unconditional love and the act inspired by ego is ignorance and fear....
How responsible are we for being "given" a separate identity?
We are totally responsible and totally forgiven... The problem is to learn how to forgave ourself to be able to forgive others ...
"Given" a separate identify, our awareness of our own unitive nature is impeded. This is the inherent function of Maya, no?
We are not given a separate identity , it appears so to us, our own unity with God cannot be impeded because it is perfection , there is only one maya : the ego ignorance of this fact... The ego must learn what our higher self knows already... We must learn how to receive forgiveness from our higher self to ourself... It is very difficult... It takes time...