The problem with "cliches" is that they are not even true or wrong , they are caricature asking to be slogan and wanting to be repeated ...
i obsess with my low cost audio system because it gave me the eternal joy of music listening ...
My wife with a ears loss and looking at my modified speakers (100 bucks ) think that i am nuts but no snob jerk ...
As you see there is exception all are not snob , some are simply "nuts" , myself i prefer to say of myself acoustically informed but it is too pedantic generally to say such thing , then call me "nuts" ...😁😊
«I will love to hate sometimes but it is too much work»--Groucho Marx 🤓
Cliches often become such for a reason.
“Audiophiles are lame, snobby jerks” is no exception.