Wow, thank you for the outstanding reply! It seems my three options cover the range from pinpoint/analytic to warm and romantic. That's helpful since I've never heard the Revels and it's been a long time since I heard the Aerials.
The space is quite large 20L x 22W x 15H, the speakers are on the 22W wall. I am a bit concerned about filling the room with sound since I heard the SF's in a small demo room with full treatments. My living room will not have that as while my wife is extremely understanding and enjoys the hobby too - isn't THAT understanding. :)
Yes I plan to keep my electronics. Lumin Streamer, Ayre QB-9 Twenty DAC, Esoteric DV-50 disc player, Levinson 326s pre, JC1 amps, AudioQuest cables (Diamond USB and Meteor balanced and speaker), I forgot to mention I also have a JL Fathom F112 V2 sub.