@ezstreams Your reference to your parents' Grundig console caught my attention! I, also, cut my teeth ... or maybe I should say my ears ... on the love of music and, ultimately, the quest for furthering its fidelity, on my parents' old Grundig console which, by the way, I still have! It's a beautiful piece of what I consider to be antique furniture and/or audiophilia. Did your parents' Grundig console look anything like this:
photos of Grundig stereo console - Bing images
As for the ADD thing, that's not ADD, at least not according to the DSM. Personally, my greatest enjoyment of listening to tunes on my system is with or without friends and a fine glass of single malt Scotch or a nice wine.
Enjoy!