@stuartk , this was an interesting read. I am happy for you that you resolved the issue. It’s interesting, because I’ve read other posts in other threads by listeners who found squares of concrete as a satisfactory way of elevating their tweeter height; I think I may have read of a reviewer or two talking about that. I am not questioning/doubting you at all; just noting that. I’ll remember it for my own purposes as well. My chair happens to put me at a height that my ears are at or maybe even a bit below my tweeters, and I can adjust by adjusting my slouch. Not too crazy long ago I was breaking in/auditioning a new pair of speakers, and I think it was a distortion test track on a test CD I was playing with, and I remember thinking that I heard the distortion more clearly when I was sitting up & my head was more forward. Which I guess should maybe equate to my hearing being better in that position? I played around with that aspect of listening for a little bit, but that was driving me neurotic and totally taking the pleasure out of the experience.
Anyway, just out of curiosity, which speakers were you trying out that led you to solving the issue by removing the pavers?
Now that you mention it, on occasion, when I’ve cranked the volume so I can hear it better in another room, I’ve noticed a fatiguing edge. I never turn it up that loud when in my listening chair, though.
As far as the above, not that it applies to sibilance, but back in the 90s, on the weekends when I was doing the majority of my listening, I had my system in the living room and I would be drinking and having a good time during my listening and I would frequently have it cranked up to earbleed levels; in the living room it would sound pretty dirty at those levels, but when I would go out to the backporch where I was barbecuing, it still seemed LOUD, but I thought it sounded pretty good from back there. (Now my system is in a smaller dedicated back bedroom, and the way I listen is considerably different.)
Your interpretation is entirely off the mark.
Maybe consider reading things a little more carefully before jumping immediately to erroneous conclusions.
+1 on that.