"audiophiles listen to their equipment"


That quote is misattributed to Alan Parsons, as I understand. Anyway saying there's a problem with wanting good sound is like saying an instrument designer, aiming for beautiful sound, could not possibly be a music lover and is only interested in the sound of the instruments. I.e. the sound is inseparable from the music. For me the beauty of the sound, good microdynamics, and so on, are the "doors" to the meaning of the music.

magon

I do know “audiophiles” who only listen to a same small set of tracks. 
 

I am always looking for new music.
Returning to familiar/favorite music when new gear pops in. 
Always great when new gear brings out new details in favorite music. 

@sudnh I agree. New music is always the most entertaining, and I don't need as high a quality. For example, streaming Tidal on my music server is not as high quality as playing from its SSD, but it's a way to hear much new music, so I really enjoy it.

@stuartk 

”psychoacoustical experience of a tri-tone interval has little to do with sonics.”

If the system is incapable of reproducing it, then you are correct: there will be none to be heard. 

As I have said elsewhere, audio is not an end in itself: its purpose is to faithfully reproduce what the artist, with the help of the recording engineer, intended you to hear. 

I can’t believe how we go through this topic with seemingly infinite variations. 

I'm old so...

First it was the table radio with the pretty glowing tubes.  Wonderful... how does it all work?

Then Ham Radio to talk with the world, and more equipment fascination. 

As a teen it was all about the music... loved the Do-Wop but how bad was that sound?  Darn Barry Gordy left us no SQ.

Then, sixty years of equipment and sound fascination at the same time.  Thousands for stuff for slightly better sound? Better cables in my rig?  Pretty stuff?  More realistic?  You bet.

The best of both worlds.  Now to enjoy hours at a time.

My ears, my money.  

All good...

I can enjoy how it sounds and listen to music at the same time if I'm listening to my main system with all the right pieces in place.  When there is a suboptimal component in the string, it is easy to become less engaged listening to the music.

When I get bored after a long stretch of swapping different components in/out just to see what changes for better or worse, it's another trigger to stop and revisit other hobbies for a while. Stepping away from it for a while helps to hit the reset button in the brain for me.  I've found this to be necessary to appreciate the system more too. I've learned swapping components may not always be better, just different types of sound. A good friend convinced me a while back it's all about personal preference and your mood at the moment.  Stop and revisit later if you need to.

When the desire to listen to different music kicks back in, I restart for another stretch to simply listen to lots of different music again, and let the components be.