Reminds of someone I know who kept blaming all his problems on the room and its acoustics. Were you very very sure that it was/is the room thats the source of your woes?
I wish I could do what you have done, rebuild the room but that's not an option. I can't even get rid of some of furniture (bookshelves) as the little woman would throw me out rather than her collection of books. There are things you have to learn to live with and sometimes you need to bend a little and not be so picky and just enjoy the music. I could ask if you are so concerned with the rooms acoustics why you did not try Room EQ. I am sure it would probably get you a lot closer to what you want at the expense of some purity.
I wish I could do what you have done, rebuild the room but that's not an option. I can't even get rid of some of furniture (bookshelves) as the little woman would throw me out rather than her collection of books. There are things you have to learn to live with and sometimes you need to bend a little and not be so picky and just enjoy the music. I could ask if you are so concerned with the rooms acoustics why you did not try Room EQ. I am sure it would probably get you a lot closer to what you want at the expense of some purity.