Hey,
Look, at the point where your placement is so bad that you can't get a decent center stage, I promise you that a decent EQ will be the least of your worries.
If you want to be a purist, get a better room, with treatment. If you can't do that an EQ is going to be a huge huge improvement by comparison. I mean, do you want to spend years not listening to a great sounding system because you were worried about tone controls??
Honestly too, EQ's and tone controls are superbly better than they were in the past, so the benefits far outweigh the risks.
The issue you are having, as you point out, is that you need to treat both channels separately, and that's what ARC or a miniDSP will let you do.
Look, at the point where your placement is so bad that you can't get a decent center stage, I promise you that a decent EQ will be the least of your worries.
If you want to be a purist, get a better room, with treatment. If you can't do that an EQ is going to be a huge huge improvement by comparison. I mean, do you want to spend years not listening to a great sounding system because you were worried about tone controls??
Honestly too, EQ's and tone controls are superbly better than they were in the past, so the benefits far outweigh the risks.
The issue you are having, as you point out, is that you need to treat both channels separately, and that's what ARC or a miniDSP will let you do.