3. You’d need to get a second amp to bi-amp, preferably one with adjustable gain so you could vary the woofer output relative to mid/highs.
I personally doubt the Polks are worth it if they don’t have plenty of bass on their own as-is. It’s subjective however...if you otherwise flat out love their sound, maybe it’s worth the effort, but the term "The treble and mids are ok..." that you used speaks volumes. The goal is to love your system, and that'll always be a struggle if two thirds of the key ingredients are only "ok"....regardless if you get the bass output up to snuff.
2. GR-Research has a kit called the Brute that would come in close to budget ($1200+ s/h/tax), and should have plenty of slam, and likely better overall clarity and soundstage.
1. Not a big fan of EQ, and know diddly about DSP and other such options, so I’m not much help with that option.