Best of luck with your new 800.2 amp. I hope it's a good combo.
I am driving my Graham ls 5/5 with AGD Duet mono blocks. 150 W into 8 ohms & 300 W into 4 ohms. I also drive them with a DIY First Watt F4 sometimes which is 25W into 8 ohms & 40W into 4 ohms. 95% of the time I think the smaller amp is more than I need. I don't think the Grahams are that hard to drive, but I don't listen too loud either.
In addition to being voiced differently and having different impedance characteristics, the two speakers are different designs. The dipoles will load the room a lot differently than the Grahams. Do you think it's possible that the Grahams excite your room nodes, making everything sound muddy? Bad bass might be the most common problem in audio. Perhaps the Nu-Vista will give you some insight.